It's is not only the hardest job on the planet and the most rewarding having and raising your children..but think of all the things you have to save them from like teaching them how to cross the street to now talking to strangers to calling 911 to hiding if someone comes into their school with a gun.....to fight with all your might if a stranger tries to take you into their car or van...
Now there are over 30 STD's around to be aware of and to inform your children of because more than half of them are invisible till later on when they want to have children and then they show and can cause cancerous cells.....
What a job being a Parent ...Right????
Well...as long as you keep telling your kids how much you love them and keep those boundaries set and DON'T GIVE IN..and REWARD them on days just for being good for NO REASON AT ALL , as a SURPRISE....your relationship will STAY POSITIVE & STRONG!
Raising children with POSITIVE Conversation is the way to go......
There is enough Negativity in Life that they deal with on their own and when they come HOME..it should be a HOME they LOVE TO WALK INTO and "WANT TO GIVE YOU A HUG! No matter how old they are.............
This is honest experience talking........
Parents who love their kids and work it!
HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo
Tuesday, February 26, 2008
Friday, October 26, 2007
HALLOWEEN TIPS!
Remember that today is not like the yesterday's that we all experienced when it came to Halloween and the Culture and times in Life have somewhat changed. We have more knowledge on many things such as health issues and safety and wackos out there and on the Internet...lol
If you have a "Little Child and you do not want them to have the candy that they treak & treat at your neighborhood doors for, here is a suggestion:
Buy a double of the "Treat Bag you are using and fill it with the things that you give your little ones to snack on and switch it when you get home while they are washing up!"
Also..remember to wear reflective tape on your costumes at night, for crossing the streets! Go in a group!
Stay safe and "Always check your candy treats BEFORE EATING THEM!"
These easy rules followed will make your kids have a enjoyable time!
Happy Halloween!
"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!"
If you have a "Little Child and you do not want them to have the candy that they treak & treat at your neighborhood doors for, here is a suggestion:
Buy a double of the "Treat Bag you are using and fill it with the things that you give your little ones to snack on and switch it when you get home while they are washing up!"
Also..remember to wear reflective tape on your costumes at night, for crossing the streets! Go in a group!
Stay safe and "Always check your candy treats BEFORE EATING THEM!"
These easy rules followed will make your kids have a enjoyable time!
Happy Halloween!
"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!"
Monday, October 22, 2007
GOOD PARENTING vs. BAD PARENTING!
Having Kids is easy! Raising them in TODAY'S WORLD of "TOO MUCH INFORMATION" is a harder job than our Parents or Grandparents had :-)
You have too make sure ...you have MORE INFORMATION THAN THEM! Especially...when you get to the TEEN-AGE years!
The Internet is a Wonderful "TOOL"...see I said "TOOL!" That is what the Internet is a TOOL...but kids think it is "their Voice or their GOD....lololol"
The kids of today think everything they get off the Internet is correct and accurate and they feel empowered with knowledge that may not be correct at all...
If you find yourself having trouble raising your kids today most probably it is because you have "NOT SET BOUNDARIES UP!"
SET THEM UP and STICK TOO THEM!
1. Only allow your kids on the computer a certain amount of time a day.
2. Have their cell phone shut off or in a certain place in your home every night
3. Have them do their homework right after school of after dinner if they need time to get their excess energy out from being in school all day
4. NEVER ALLOW YOUR CHILDREN TO TALK BACK TO YOU and GO UNPUNISHED! You will only be showing them how to get into trouble in the future and be setting yourself up for problems down the road as they grow.
5, Punish if they curse swear or use nasty words to ANYONE! Let them know there are 1000's of fantastic words in the dictionary to choose from and put one in their rooms
6. ASK THEM EVERYDAY WHAT THEY DID IN SCHOOL! Show them you DO CARE & LISTEN TO THEM!
7. HAVE GROUP HUGS IN YOUR HOME! THIS IS THE BEST THING IN LIFE! IT GIVEs A GREAT SENSE OF BELONGING!
8. When you punish for something, make sure the punishment fits the problem. DO NOT GIVE IN! STICK TO IT! THEY WILL LOVE YOU WHEN THEY UNDERSTAND & ARE MATURE..ignore the mumbling and hurtful things they may say under their breath....JUST REMIND THEM YOU LOVE THEM!
9. Reward them with extra time for things, like on the computer or staying up or coming home a bit later when they are FOLLOWING ALL THE FAMILY RULES! It is important for a child, even up until College age to understand HOW MUCH YOU LOVE THEM!
10. "EVERYONE WANTS TO BE LOVED...PERIOD!" ACTIONS SHOW IT SO YOU MUST SHOW YOUR LOVE ALSO! Parenting..a GREAT PARENT is a 24/7 day a week job. 365 days a year! NO TIME OFF! NO PAID HOLIDAYS! NO VACATIONS ALONE! NO RAISES! NO SICK DAYS! NOTHING! BE PROUD TO BE A GREAT PARENT and for all of the "SINGLE PARENTS...BE TWICE AS PROUD OF YOURSELVES!"
Parents of Today have a tough road...but it can be done if you follow these few guides and if you need more write to http://www.jez-sez.com/ main page and we will get you an answer...you are NEVER ALONE! The reason why our "Culture has gone wild is because 1/2 of the Parents of TODAY just don't CARE HOW THEIR KIDS ACT OR GROW UP AND THAT IS WHY THE WORLD OF TOMORROW MAY BE WORSE FOR THEM..... Those Single, Devoted, Domestic Violence Survivors know if they can do it...............ANYONE CAN! BAD PARENTS GET IT TOGETHER AND RAISE YOUR KIDS!
VENTARAMA THINK B-I-G! (Believe In God) Get it! Happiness! DEAR JEZ-SEZ.com http://www.whythismlm.com/d.cgi/wj1364/home.html
"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo
http://www.JEZ-SEZ.com
http://ventarama-jezsezcom.blogspot.com/
You have too make sure ...you have MORE INFORMATION THAN THEM! Especially...when you get to the TEEN-AGE years!
The Internet is a Wonderful "TOOL"...see I said "TOOL!" That is what the Internet is a TOOL...but kids think it is "their Voice or their GOD....lololol"
The kids of today think everything they get off the Internet is correct and accurate and they feel empowered with knowledge that may not be correct at all...
If you find yourself having trouble raising your kids today most probably it is because you have "NOT SET BOUNDARIES UP!"
SET THEM UP and STICK TOO THEM!
1. Only allow your kids on the computer a certain amount of time a day.
2. Have their cell phone shut off or in a certain place in your home every night
3. Have them do their homework right after school of after dinner if they need time to get their excess energy out from being in school all day
4. NEVER ALLOW YOUR CHILDREN TO TALK BACK TO YOU and GO UNPUNISHED! You will only be showing them how to get into trouble in the future and be setting yourself up for problems down the road as they grow.
5, Punish if they curse swear or use nasty words to ANYONE! Let them know there are 1000's of fantastic words in the dictionary to choose from and put one in their rooms
6. ASK THEM EVERYDAY WHAT THEY DID IN SCHOOL! Show them you DO CARE & LISTEN TO THEM!
7. HAVE GROUP HUGS IN YOUR HOME! THIS IS THE BEST THING IN LIFE! IT GIVEs A GREAT SENSE OF BELONGING!
8. When you punish for something, make sure the punishment fits the problem. DO NOT GIVE IN! STICK TO IT! THEY WILL LOVE YOU WHEN THEY UNDERSTAND & ARE MATURE..ignore the mumbling and hurtful things they may say under their breath....JUST REMIND THEM YOU LOVE THEM!
9. Reward them with extra time for things, like on the computer or staying up or coming home a bit later when they are FOLLOWING ALL THE FAMILY RULES! It is important for a child, even up until College age to understand HOW MUCH YOU LOVE THEM!
10. "EVERYONE WANTS TO BE LOVED...PERIOD!" ACTIONS SHOW IT SO YOU MUST SHOW YOUR LOVE ALSO! Parenting..a GREAT PARENT is a 24/7 day a week job. 365 days a year! NO TIME OFF! NO PAID HOLIDAYS! NO VACATIONS ALONE! NO RAISES! NO SICK DAYS! NOTHING! BE PROUD TO BE A GREAT PARENT and for all of the "SINGLE PARENTS...BE TWICE AS PROUD OF YOURSELVES!"
Parents of Today have a tough road...but it can be done if you follow these few guides and if you need more write to http://www.jez-sez.com/ main page and we will get you an answer...you are NEVER ALONE! The reason why our "Culture has gone wild is because 1/2 of the Parents of TODAY just don't CARE HOW THEIR KIDS ACT OR GROW UP AND THAT IS WHY THE WORLD OF TOMORROW MAY BE WORSE FOR THEM..... Those Single, Devoted, Domestic Violence Survivors know if they can do it...............ANYONE CAN! BAD PARENTS GET IT TOGETHER AND RAISE YOUR KIDS!
VENTARAMA THINK B-I-G! (Believe In God) Get it! Happiness! DEAR JEZ-SEZ.com http://www.whythismlm.com/d.cgi/wj1364/home.html
"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo
http://www.JEZ-SEZ.com
http://ventarama-jezsezcom.blogspot.com/
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