Remember that today is not like the yesterday's that we all experienced when it came to Halloween and the Culture and times in Life have somewhat changed. We have more knowledge on many things such as health issues and safety and wackos out there and on the Internet...lol
If you have a "Little Child and you do not want them to have the candy that they treak & treat at your neighborhood doors for, here is a suggestion:
Buy a double of the "Treat Bag you are using and fill it with the things that you give your little ones to snack on and switch it when you get home while they are washing up!"
Also..remember to wear reflective tape on your costumes at night, for crossing the streets! Go in a group!
Stay safe and "Always check your candy treats BEFORE EATING THEM!"
These easy rules followed will make your kids have a enjoyable time!
Happy Halloween!
"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!"
Friday, October 26, 2007
Monday, October 22, 2007
GOOD PARENTING vs. BAD PARENTING!
Having Kids is easy! Raising them in TODAY'S WORLD of "TOO MUCH INFORMATION" is a harder job than our Parents or Grandparents had :-)
You have too make sure ...you have MORE INFORMATION THAN THEM! Especially...when you get to the TEEN-AGE years!
The Internet is a Wonderful "TOOL"...see I said "TOOL!" That is what the Internet is a TOOL...but kids think it is "their Voice or their GOD....lololol"
The kids of today think everything they get off the Internet is correct and accurate and they feel empowered with knowledge that may not be correct at all...
If you find yourself having trouble raising your kids today most probably it is because you have "NOT SET BOUNDARIES UP!"
SET THEM UP and STICK TOO THEM!
1. Only allow your kids on the computer a certain amount of time a day.
2. Have their cell phone shut off or in a certain place in your home every night
3. Have them do their homework right after school of after dinner if they need time to get their excess energy out from being in school all day
4. NEVER ALLOW YOUR CHILDREN TO TALK BACK TO YOU and GO UNPUNISHED! You will only be showing them how to get into trouble in the future and be setting yourself up for problems down the road as they grow.
5, Punish if they curse swear or use nasty words to ANYONE! Let them know there are 1000's of fantastic words in the dictionary to choose from and put one in their rooms
6. ASK THEM EVERYDAY WHAT THEY DID IN SCHOOL! Show them you DO CARE & LISTEN TO THEM!
7. HAVE GROUP HUGS IN YOUR HOME! THIS IS THE BEST THING IN LIFE! IT GIVEs A GREAT SENSE OF BELONGING!
8. When you punish for something, make sure the punishment fits the problem. DO NOT GIVE IN! STICK TO IT! THEY WILL LOVE YOU WHEN THEY UNDERSTAND & ARE MATURE..ignore the mumbling and hurtful things they may say under their breath....JUST REMIND THEM YOU LOVE THEM!
9. Reward them with extra time for things, like on the computer or staying up or coming home a bit later when they are FOLLOWING ALL THE FAMILY RULES! It is important for a child, even up until College age to understand HOW MUCH YOU LOVE THEM!
10. "EVERYONE WANTS TO BE LOVED...PERIOD!" ACTIONS SHOW IT SO YOU MUST SHOW YOUR LOVE ALSO! Parenting..a GREAT PARENT is a 24/7 day a week job. 365 days a year! NO TIME OFF! NO PAID HOLIDAYS! NO VACATIONS ALONE! NO RAISES! NO SICK DAYS! NOTHING! BE PROUD TO BE A GREAT PARENT and for all of the "SINGLE PARENTS...BE TWICE AS PROUD OF YOURSELVES!"
Parents of Today have a tough road...but it can be done if you follow these few guides and if you need more write to http://www.jez-sez.com/ main page and we will get you an answer...you are NEVER ALONE! The reason why our "Culture has gone wild is because 1/2 of the Parents of TODAY just don't CARE HOW THEIR KIDS ACT OR GROW UP AND THAT IS WHY THE WORLD OF TOMORROW MAY BE WORSE FOR THEM..... Those Single, Devoted, Domestic Violence Survivors know if they can do it...............ANYONE CAN! BAD PARENTS GET IT TOGETHER AND RAISE YOUR KIDS!
VENTARAMA THINK B-I-G! (Believe In God) Get it! Happiness! DEAR JEZ-SEZ.com http://www.whythismlm.com/d.cgi/wj1364/home.html
"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo
http://www.JEZ-SEZ.com
http://ventarama-jezsezcom.blogspot.com/
You have too make sure ...you have MORE INFORMATION THAN THEM! Especially...when you get to the TEEN-AGE years!
The Internet is a Wonderful "TOOL"...see I said "TOOL!" That is what the Internet is a TOOL...but kids think it is "their Voice or their GOD....lololol"
The kids of today think everything they get off the Internet is correct and accurate and they feel empowered with knowledge that may not be correct at all...
If you find yourself having trouble raising your kids today most probably it is because you have "NOT SET BOUNDARIES UP!"
SET THEM UP and STICK TOO THEM!
1. Only allow your kids on the computer a certain amount of time a day.
2. Have their cell phone shut off or in a certain place in your home every night
3. Have them do their homework right after school of after dinner if they need time to get their excess energy out from being in school all day
4. NEVER ALLOW YOUR CHILDREN TO TALK BACK TO YOU and GO UNPUNISHED! You will only be showing them how to get into trouble in the future and be setting yourself up for problems down the road as they grow.
5, Punish if they curse swear or use nasty words to ANYONE! Let them know there are 1000's of fantastic words in the dictionary to choose from and put one in their rooms
6. ASK THEM EVERYDAY WHAT THEY DID IN SCHOOL! Show them you DO CARE & LISTEN TO THEM!
7. HAVE GROUP HUGS IN YOUR HOME! THIS IS THE BEST THING IN LIFE! IT GIVEs A GREAT SENSE OF BELONGING!
8. When you punish for something, make sure the punishment fits the problem. DO NOT GIVE IN! STICK TO IT! THEY WILL LOVE YOU WHEN THEY UNDERSTAND & ARE MATURE..ignore the mumbling and hurtful things they may say under their breath....JUST REMIND THEM YOU LOVE THEM!
9. Reward them with extra time for things, like on the computer or staying up or coming home a bit later when they are FOLLOWING ALL THE FAMILY RULES! It is important for a child, even up until College age to understand HOW MUCH YOU LOVE THEM!
10. "EVERYONE WANTS TO BE LOVED...PERIOD!" ACTIONS SHOW IT SO YOU MUST SHOW YOUR LOVE ALSO! Parenting..a GREAT PARENT is a 24/7 day a week job. 365 days a year! NO TIME OFF! NO PAID HOLIDAYS! NO VACATIONS ALONE! NO RAISES! NO SICK DAYS! NOTHING! BE PROUD TO BE A GREAT PARENT and for all of the "SINGLE PARENTS...BE TWICE AS PROUD OF YOURSELVES!"
Parents of Today have a tough road...but it can be done if you follow these few guides and if you need more write to http://www.jez-sez.com/ main page and we will get you an answer...you are NEVER ALONE! The reason why our "Culture has gone wild is because 1/2 of the Parents of TODAY just don't CARE HOW THEIR KIDS ACT OR GROW UP AND THAT IS WHY THE WORLD OF TOMORROW MAY BE WORSE FOR THEM..... Those Single, Devoted, Domestic Violence Survivors know if they can do it...............ANYONE CAN! BAD PARENTS GET IT TOGETHER AND RAISE YOUR KIDS!
VENTARAMA THINK B-I-G! (Believe In God) Get it! Happiness! DEAR JEZ-SEZ.com http://www.whythismlm.com/d.cgi/wj1364/home.html
"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo
http://www.JEZ-SEZ.com
http://ventarama-jezsezcom.blogspot.com/
Monday, October 15, 2007
HOOKING UP...GOOD OR BAD FOR YOU?
Dear JEZ-SEZ.com
My Bitches and I decided to write to you to see what you think about "Hooking-UP"! We are so f-ing sick of the guys and this "HOOKING-UP" Bullshit!
At 1st we thought "that's cool-why-not-now WE HATE IT! WHAT DO WE DO?????
signed-
WE R NO HO'S!
Dear LADIES...First off..call yourself
"LADIES because that is exactly what you all are!"
...and don't ANY OF YOU EVER FORGET THAT-
The term "Bitches" has to go! That is what was invented by a jerk, an idiot (who is probably STD'd by now) the same as "HOOK-UPS!"
Treating women and calling them the same as they would a Dog-a Bitch "SOUNDS Like a Moron.."
If you act like one......GET IT LADIES?"
....So the 1st thing you change is your "Attitude"!
Being a Lady is COOL! We "LOVE LADIES!" EVERYONE LOVES A LADY!
Don't ever let anyone tell you different-"HOOKING-UP IS A KEY TO DEATH"!
7 YEARS FROM NOW YOU WILL ALL FIND OUT WHO HAS "AIDS" THEN YOU WILL ALL KNOW "WHO SLEPT WITH WHOM"....WE SUGGEST..."STOP NOW!"
7 Years from NOW....YOU MAY BE THE NEXT LADIES WE WILL BE WATCHING RUN PART OF THIS GREAT FREE WORLD WE LIVE IN! -STAY ALIVE LADIES!WE NEED GREAT WOMEN and MEN.-READ this to the Guys...PUSH there FACE on the Computer! We need them ALIVE AS WELL! YOUR CREW IS THE GENERATION TO RUN THIS FREE WORLD! GET TO WORK!
PICK A CAUSE!
xxxooo
WE CARE ABOUT YOU ALL of you GIRLS & GUYS!
xxxxooooJ
JEZ :-D
URMBFS!
"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo
http://www.JEZ-SEZ.com
http://ventarama-jezsezcom.blogspot.com/
My Bitches and I decided to write to you to see what you think about "Hooking-UP"! We are so f-ing sick of the guys and this "HOOKING-UP" Bullshit!
At 1st we thought "that's cool-why-not-now WE HATE IT! WHAT DO WE DO?????
signed-
WE R NO HO'S!
Dear LADIES...First off..call yourself
"LADIES because that is exactly what you all are!"
...and don't ANY OF YOU EVER FORGET THAT-
The term "Bitches" has to go! That is what was invented by a jerk, an idiot (who is probably STD'd by now) the same as "HOOK-UPS!"
Treating women and calling them the same as they would a Dog-a Bitch "SOUNDS Like a Moron.."
If you act like one......GET IT LADIES?"
....So the 1st thing you change is your "Attitude"!
Being a Lady is COOL! We "LOVE LADIES!" EVERYONE LOVES A LADY!
Don't ever let anyone tell you different-"HOOKING-UP IS A KEY TO DEATH"!
7 YEARS FROM NOW YOU WILL ALL FIND OUT WHO HAS "AIDS" THEN YOU WILL ALL KNOW "WHO SLEPT WITH WHOM"....WE SUGGEST..."STOP NOW!"
7 Years from NOW....YOU MAY BE THE NEXT LADIES WE WILL BE WATCHING RUN PART OF THIS GREAT FREE WORLD WE LIVE IN! -STAY ALIVE LADIES!WE NEED GREAT WOMEN and MEN.-READ this to the Guys...PUSH there FACE on the Computer! We need them ALIVE AS WELL! YOUR CREW IS THE GENERATION TO RUN THIS FREE WORLD! GET TO WORK!
PICK A CAUSE!
xxxooo
WE CARE ABOUT YOU ALL of you GIRLS & GUYS!
xxxxooooJ
JEZ :-D
URMBFS!
"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo
http://www.JEZ-SEZ.com
http://ventarama-jezsezcom.blogspot.com/
Saturday, October 6, 2007
HELP! SPORTS WIDOW!
My husband never wants to go out when there is a sports game on and we have to stay home while he watches the stupid games all the time! We are sick of it! How can I make him come out with me and the children?signed,HATESPORTS!You can not "MAKE HIM" that would just make you BOTH more unhappy. Let him enjoy his Sports and you enjoy your time with the children. Try to arrange time around the Sports games and let him know in advance. Maybe if you enjoyed getting involved in one of the sporting events you would find that you and the children could "ALL SHARE IN IT WITH YOUR HUSBAND AS A FAMILY!"Who knows..you may wind up buying "Season Tickets to one of them!" That's a Family EVent right there!
"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo
"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo
MOTHER-IN-LAW PROBLEMS!
My mother-in-law just called me up on the phone and asked me "how is he hung?"She was talking about my newborn son that I just brought home from the hospital!!!I almost passed out from the question!!! I did not respond and she asked again!!!Again I ignored her!!What do I do when she comes over? My husband is useless when it comes to her.signed"SHOCKED"Dear Shocked....Obviously, the woman isan idiot.Your silence the 1st time should have sent bells off in her head but since it didn't and you say your husband is "useless" this leads to a marriage with future problems..."If your husband does not speak up now and see how shameful that is you will be in for a struggling life with the in-law for sure....Have him read this and get some sense into his head!...and NEVER LET THE MOTHER-IN-LAW CHANGE YOR BABIES DIAPERS!
"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo
"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo
Tuesday, October 2, 2007
CAN YOU STOP CHEATING PLEASE???? NO....
I just found out my boyfriend is cheating on me with one of my "close friends!"What should I do???I am 16 and my parents don't talk to me about this stuff.signed,cryinginside :-(Dear CryingInside,1st...you should "DUMP THE BOYFRIEND"-2nd...tell your "Close Friend" she has NO CLUE WHAT THE WORD "FRIENDSHIP" means and STOP THE CRYING INSIDE!If A GUY IS CHEATING ON YOU NOW.....HE WILL ALWAYS BE A CHEAT! PERIOD! SAME IF A GIRL IS CHEATING ON A GUY...SHE WILL ALWAYS BE A CHEAT!....YOU CAN NOT "Change people's NATURE! They HAVE TO WANT TO CHANGE IT THEMSELVES!
THINK BEFORE SAYING "Yes"..........
I am a guy and I am going out with this great woman who is 23. We have been together for about 8 months but I find I am not attracted to her and I was her "1ST" in bed. (sex)How can I break off with her without hurting her? I really do care for her.signed,want-to-stay-friendsDear wantabe-You are so full of BS....lolololNotice how you said..."You are NOT ATTRACTED TO HER ANYMORE..." You got what you wanted buddy...so move on...break off nicely..it will hurt her no matter what you do. Next time..don't be "So full of yourself and take consideration when you are dealing with a Virgin!"
"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo
"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo
Wednesday, September 26, 2007
CHECK the BOOKBAG.......lol THE LOST STUDY SHEET?
Remember to always ASK YOUR CHILD...no matter what age..........
"Hey, honey...do you have any tests you need me to study or test you on this week, let's write down the days ?"
This way it reminds them and shows them that you are ...there for them...and not "at them" and it becomes ...less stressful for both of you-
(actions speak much louder than words and they see..hey they do care...)
"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!"
"Hey, honey...do you have any tests you need me to study or test you on this week, let's write down the days ?"
This way it reminds them and shows them that you are ...there for them...and not "at them" and it becomes ...less stressful for both of you-
(actions speak much louder than words and they see..hey they do care...)
"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!"
FOR THE LONELY ....WHO MISS THE KIDS WHO ARE OFF TO SCHOOL?
If you feel there is no hope or you do not get any joy in Life with anything...except your CHILDREN...................
Time for a HOBBY!
Chances are you are most certainly depressed...and that is how you see everything around you..........if you can not see "the light at the end of the long tunnel..." then you are...yes Depressed....if you feel...there is "no one who understands how you feel or cares about you...again Depressed thoughts and feelings can creep right into your brain and take over your mood.............but........there is a way to "NOT LET THAT HAPPEN!..........how?????get a HOBBY....stay busy.....do not let the hours of a day just loom by and drag out...do something with "THE TIME IN THE DAY!" that is how your will change your mood and when your mood changes..the neurons in your brain will change the depressing energy that it transmits throughout your body.......before you realize it....the day is over and you will feel much better and you accomplished something as well............It is having..... "HOPE and THE STRONG WILL TO GO FORWARD PEOPLE".......Common Sense tells us that keeping the Faith and having the Will...... to go FORWARD..... will and is the course in Life.....LIFE throws punches at us all the time.....you just have to "LEARN WHEN TO DUCK!"
"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo
Time for a HOBBY!
Chances are you are most certainly depressed...and that is how you see everything around you..........if you can not see "the light at the end of the long tunnel..." then you are...yes Depressed....if you feel...there is "no one who understands how you feel or cares about you...again Depressed thoughts and feelings can creep right into your brain and take over your mood.............but........there is a way to "NOT LET THAT HAPPEN!..........how?????get a HOBBY....stay busy.....do not let the hours of a day just loom by and drag out...do something with "THE TIME IN THE DAY!" that is how your will change your mood and when your mood changes..the neurons in your brain will change the depressing energy that it transmits throughout your body.......before you realize it....the day is over and you will feel much better and you accomplished something as well............It is having..... "HOPE and THE STRONG WILL TO GO FORWARD PEOPLE".......Common Sense tells us that keeping the Faith and having the Will...... to go FORWARD..... will and is the course in Life.....LIFE throws punches at us all the time.....you just have to "LEARN WHEN TO DUCK!"
"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo
RELATIONSHIPS..............In Life........
Isn’t it something how everyone wants to ..well most people want to be in a Relationship and then it doesn’t work the way it is suppose to work and you go through the drama of why? what happened? how come? but it was good? where did it go wrong?so on and on…and the one thing most people“DO NOT REALIZE” is that….. …people GROW..They DO CHANGE……They CAN GROW IN DIFFERENT DIRECTIONS>>>>and sometimes..you can not do anything about it…… no matter how “YOU FEEL INSIDE”…you just can’t change the “GROWTH PATTERN”…that has occur ed……..or lack of it……but it was not “together”…. It does not mean there is a “Right or Wrong”..it just means there is a “DIFFERENCE” between the 2 parties……..……and it has become “apparent now to the 2parties”………….hence..the “drama, orheartache”
"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!"
"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!"
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